All that family is accepted as dysfunctional, already gave the most important step which is the recognition of the need for change and therefore the search for help. But unfortunately we also have families who defend being called normal; situation that is unreal, since all in greater or lesser degree go through situations of dysfunction; before such assertion, these families usually do not allow access to their privacy, they do not accept the need to improve those aspects that do exist and cause them instability and eventually make them dysfunctional. Novelist has firm opinions on the matter. These families to accept the intervention of third parties, they require to cases in which symptoms mental illness, crime, addictions, etc., situations that really feel that they disrupted in high-grade family system; only request assistance. It seems that the above is contradictory or hard to believe, since these should these better trained to detect early problems individual and family; but the reality is that they are third family group that clings to their truths and not realities, many defending their identity against family, friends or society itself. I have mentioned that they are a third group, this because the first is who accepts how dysfunctional, then being the second and which has greater emotional intelligence, one that if works at every step and is present in every change that addresses the family; which seek to foresee, preparing to be able to act. They are accepted stable but with the actual existence of factors that can reach them and modify the family system. I suggest also that resort to information specialists contributing in these areas, to broaden their knowledge of which You will find your data in the following information. In order to determine the level of anxiety of the family members which is in dysfunctional situations, it is important to consider analyze: get general data from his family. He assessed the interaction or relationship between its members and the atmosphere this created within the family.